Monday, 20 February 2017

Good Vibes - 7 36 Vayadhinilae

The movie was released in the year 2015. A Malayalam remake in Tamil. Aired again in Jaya TV, read ‘Jaya TV HD’ on Republic Day. When the movie was released few friends and colleagues especially female friends were speaking about it with a feministic approach. Nay with a false feministic mindset to be specific. The movie was altogether different to the kind of comments received. Some beautiful insights on relationships with thyself and others are captured so well.

Many a times it happens in any home. The contribution of  mother is unseen. Sometimes she is being disrespected. Especially, during the teenage period of a child, she is being treated as if she doesn’t know anything. But as one ages, the realization strikes, even when a code fails and one sobs over phone she gives the best advice. From small ‘ID card kanum’ moment to dealing with breakup one can realize she is the encyclopedia. The movie beautifully speaks about the urge of a mother to stand beside her child any time. Jo at her best when she speaks from heart ‘En ponnu enna maari iruka kudadha?’ and the script is so powerful speaking on self-transformation.

People lose themselves in many things. Some seem healthy and some are visibly unhealthy. Be it work, relationship, alcohol, etc. The movie voices so well about being lost in relationships and losing one’s own identity. As the protagonist loses herself in relationship as a wife, as a mother  to gain no respect that she deserve is depicted so well. When the realization of being treated as a door mat strikes her, the emotions are captured to perfection with supportive friends, well wishers, in laws around.

The movie shows the beautiful journey of an individual, who lost herself in a relationship, the self-realization, pampering of her inner child again, standing up for her self-identity and self-respect, thus teaching the greatest lesson of having a healthy relationship with oneself and having a healthy life outside the relationship leads to healthy interpersonal relationship with partner and children invariably.

The movie equally calls for interdependency with mutual respect and love between the couple. Also gives an insight on being ‘dependently independent’ so the balance is maintained without being too independent, leading to a state where no one is required, or without being too clingy to be treated as a doormat, or without fumbling to too much insecurities and having multiple relationships to boost the self-esteem.

In short, a fantastic story from Rosshan Andrrews in Santhosh Narayanan music which isn’t just for someone who is 36 years old  but suits anyone of any age who lost or losing themselves in relationships, work, etc. With Jo coming around in beautiful cotton sarees, draped to perfection and an awesome social message on unhealthy vegetables and a solution for it, 36 Vayadhinilae is for any Vayadhinilae.

Eagerly waiting for next Jo movie – Magalir Mattum.




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